Sometimes I hate being female

I’m sat here filled nausea with waves of all I can say is labour pains up my back and butt. I have many thoughts running through my head I need to voice out. Why are endometriosis sufferers not allowed to claim disability allowance? Its such a debilitating disease women go through great pain everyday so much NHS have put it in the top ten worst pains ever! If a guy bled inside his body every month would he have to work? Probably not. Why are women not praised more often for periods and giving birth? Instead women are told to stop moaning and periods are joked about. I’m all for laughing with me if my period causes me to cry at something like totoro leaving (its a happy film aimed at children I just didnt want it to end) but just dont laugh at me. And I would like to be given chocolate as a reward for the pain πŸ˜‰Why is any birth control given out without tests prior? I was given the combined pill and it brought so much pain now because of the pill I believe its caused my endometriosis to move my bowel.

Sorry if this seemed like a feminist rant. Whats your opinion on these?


Abi xx


  1. beereaderbooks

    I can definitely relate ABI, I think women who struggle with heavy, painful, exhausting periods, endometriosis & pcos are treated on the whole quite poorly, diagnosis takes so much time and often you get fobbed off and those that don’t endure it really don’t understand. I get one week a month where I can say I’m fairly symptom free

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    1. simplejoysabi

      It really is I was lucky to have a good doctor and trade mark symptom (painful sex) and some endo in obvious place but I will be having my third op within maybe a year soon πŸ€¦πŸΌβ€β™€οΈ I’m so sorry you have to go through that 😰 sending virtual chocolate or dairy free virtual chocolate πŸ˜‰

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  2. togetherqueens

    I completely agree! Women definitely don’t receive the help and support that they deserve. We go through so much daily and not to mention childbirth.
    I am pregnant with my first child and some days I’m in so much pain , but people are so unsympathetic it’s sad. This world definitely doesn’t appreciate women in the ways that it should

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